The Sod Ha'Adam 3D Discovery Chart

Turn struggles into strength

Define
the struggle

Describe
the pain

Discover the
Hidden strength

The Shooting Heart

Define
the struggle

Confrontational, always picks fights with everyone. Physically aggressive.
Always putting others down. Snobby, spiteful, mean to others. Bullying. Cynical, feels a need to dismiss everything.
Bossy, domineering, always telling others what to do. Always criticizing. Brags about self, accomplishments.

Describe
the pain

Notice me! I’d rather be bad than ignored. I have a huge ability to build; if I can't build, at least I can destroy.
My value is trampled and ignored, my כחות are not expressed. I’m not good, I don’t let anyone else be good. I’ll knock the goodness out of them.
I have tons to offer! Why don’t you listen to me? Recognize who I am. My leadership abilities are being squashed.

Discover the Hidden strength

A settled person, a devoted and tireless doer, intuits when and where there is a need and steps in to fill it.
Huge inner dignity, knowing his value, tremendous ability to empower and give value to others
Real leader, respects and appreciates ideas and opinions of others, ability to inspire teamwork and unity.

Confrontational, always picks fights with everyone. Physically aggressive.

Notice me! I’d rather be bad than ignored. I have a huge ability to build; if I can't build, at least I can destroy.

A settled person, a devoted and tireless doer, intuits when and where there is a need and steps in to fill it.

Always putting others down. Snobby, spiteful, mean to others. Bullying. Cynical, feels a need to dismiss everything.

My value is trampled and ignored, my כחות are not expressed. I’m not good, I don’t let anyone else be good. I’ll knock the goodness out of them.

Huge inner dignity, knowing his value, tremendous ability to empower and give value to others.

Bossy, domineering, always telling others what to do. Always criticizing.

I have tons to offer! Why don’t you listen to me? Recognize who I am. My leadership abilities are being squashed.

Real leader, respects and appreciates ideas and opinions of others, ability to inspire teamwork and unity.

The Tight Heart

Define
the struggle

Fearful, anxious, worried. Carrying אחריות for other people. Perfectionist.
Indecisive, has a hard time making up his mind. Often stays with “no decision”.
Possessive over space, things and relationships. Always thinking/talking about self. Brags about self, accomplishments.

Describe
the pain

Lack of inner peace and stability. There’s no one really with me. If I don’t hold everything, it’s all going to fall apart.
My worth is so dependent. I must do it right. I don't want to mess up.
I feel insecure. I have a huge ability to give but my heart is tight. I need to hold on tight, or I will lose everything.

Discover the Hidden strength

Secure person, carries much אחריות without getting overwhelmed.
A person with real strength and יראת שמים, knows exactly what he wants and trusts it.
Secure with herself, giving, has an unusual ability to see beyond herself and look out for others. Can give security to others.

Fearful, anxious, worried. Carrying אחריות for other people. Perfectionist.

Lack of inner peace and stability. There’s no one really with me. If I don’t hold everything, it’s all going to fall apart.

Secure person, carries much אחריות without getting overwhelmed.

Indecisive, has a hard time making up his mind. Often stays with “no decision”.

My worth is so dependent. I must do it right. I don't want to mess up.

A person with real strength and יראת שמים, knows exactly what he wants and trusts it.

Possessive over space, things and relationships. Always thinking/talking about self. Brags about self, accomplishments.

Secure with herself, giving, has an unusual ability to see beyond herself and look out for others. Can give security to others.

I feel insecure. I have a huge ability to give but my heart is tight. I need to hold on tight, or I will lose everything.

The Numb Heart

Define
the struggle

Superficial, materialistic, vain.
Silly, immature.
Jealous, always looking at what others get. Never satisfied with what she gets, bottomless pit.

Describe
the pain

I hold on to my externals for survival because there isn't too much worth inside of me.
I feel small and weak. I don't have anything to offer the big world. Don't expect anything from me.
I’m only happy/ calm/ good if… I'm chasing something elusive - and I’m never satisfied. What I’m really searching for is meaning.

Discover the Hidden strength

Appreciates פנימיות and emes. Not impressed by externals. Has no need to make a statement.
Mature and responsible. I feel needed. I feel capable of playing my part in creation.
Satisfied, content, שמח בחלקו. Ability to live joyously in the moment. Derives deep satisfaction from inner growth.

Superficial, materialistic, vain.

I hold on to my externals for survival because there isn't too much worth inside of me.

Appreciates פנימיות and emes. Not impressed by externals. Has no need to make a statement.

Silly, immature.

I feel small and weak. I don't have anything to offer the big world. Don't expect anything from me.

Mature and responsible. I feel needed. I feel capable of playing my part in creation.

Jealous, always looking at what others get. Never satisfied with what she gets, bottomless pit.

I’m only happy/ calm/ good if… I'm chasing something elusive - and I’m never satisfied. What I’m really searching for is meaning.

Satisfied, content, שמח בחלקו. Ability to live joyously in the moment. Derives deep satisfaction from inner growth.

The Scattered Heart

Define
the struggle

Extremely disorganized. Clumsy, “shlimazel” Slow-moving, chronically late.
Lazy, unmotivated.
Grumpy, moody, sullen.

Describe
the pain

I gave up. I have no control over my life. It's too hard. I’m drowning.
I am useless. No one needs me, I'm just a burden to society.
Life is stupid. There is no point. I am stupid, I messed up. I'm a failure. There’s no hope.

Discover the Hidden strength

Completely in charge, under control and put-together. Responsible and proactive.
Motivated, hard working, devoted. Cares to do things right. I make a difference, my actions affect the whole world!
Optimistic, inspired, resilient. I see hope. I see purpose! I can constantly move forward.

Extremely disorganized. Clumsy, “shlimazel” Slow-moving, chronically late.

I gave up. I have no control over my life. It's too hard. I’m drowning.

Completely in charge, under control and put-together. Responsible and proactive.

Lazy, unmotivated.

I am useless. No one needs me, I'm just a burden to society.

Motivated, hard working, devoted. Cares to do things right. I make a difference, my actions affect the whole world!

Grumpy, moody, sullen.

Life is stupid. There is no point. I am stupid, I messed up. I'm a failure. There’s no hope.

Optimistic, inspired, resilient. I see hope. I see purpose! I can constantly move forward.